It’s hard to put into words the joy that comes with bringing a new life into the world. But when you’re planning a baby shower, you do need to find the right way to let all your loved ones know it’s time to celebrate the growing family. One of the first steps to throwing a successful shower for a mom-to-be is sending out the invites (ideally a month or so before the celebration). The ideal baby shower invitation wording will depend on a few different factors
First, you’ll want to consider the tone of the shower—whether you want it to be more formal or casual if you have a specific theme in mind, and if you want to reference the baby’s gender or not. Your baby shower invitations, after all, give your guests a good sense of what they can expect from the celebration. Then, it’s time to consider what to actually write.
What do you say on a baby shower invitation?
The invitation should clearly state the name of the guest of honor—the mom-to-be, or both parents, depending on if one or both will be in attendance. The host (whoever is planning the shower and will be collecting RSVPs) should also be listed, along with the best contact information for them to get reservations. And don’t forget a respond-by date—ideally, you’ll want to get your guest list finalized at least two weeks before the party, if not sooner, especially if your venue is an event space or restaurant where you’ll need a specific headcount.
Clearly list the venue, along with the time and date, and note who is invited. Traditionally, showers have been mainly for the mom-to-be and her female friends and family members. The modern baby shower has no strict rules: You can invite whoever the expectant family wants to be included. Just be sure to clearly state whether or not you’re accommodating +1’s.
Any additional details that guests would find helpful are also great to include: If there’s a specific dress code, a theme, planned baby shower games, what food will be served (a full meal versus light refreshments). If there’s anything guests should bring (aside from expected gifts), this should also be clear.
Especially if you’re sending virtual invitations, it’s a smart idea to include a link to the baby registry right on the invite—that way, guests know exactly where they can find it and get a head-start on their gift-shopping.
Wording for different types of baby showers
Aside from the more straightforward baby shower invitation wording (the who, what, where of it all), you can and should also have fun with cute sayings and phrases that will make your invites all the more festive. Here are some ideas to get you started, depending on what kind of shower you’re hosting.
Virtual baby shower invitation wording
If gathering together isn’t a reality, there are so many different virtual baby shower ideas that are just as fun and celebratory as an in-person party. Whether you’re opting for a Zoom party because of COVID or because you live far away from family, you can easily have a digital baby shower or as a virtual post-birth sip and see. For the latter, you can make the celebration all the most fun by specifying a signature cocktail ahead of time, so your guests can virtually cheers once they “meet” the little one.
World’s Cutest Baby
Please join us for a virtual sip and see
To meet our little one
Link to follow
Shower by mail.
You’re invited to send some love.
And attend a virtual celebration
Link to follow
Cue the curtain.
Our baby has joined the chat.
Come see the greatest act of our lives at a sip and see.
Drop in baby shower invitation wording
Another option for a socially distant shower is a drop-in baby shower. Guests can decorate their cars with decorations (wash-off paint and cheerful signs are a great option) and coordinate a mini “parade” as the mom-to-be watches out front. Alternatively, the host can give a wider time range when guests can swing by to visit the expectant mother and drop off their gift without worrying about a big crowd.
Honk for the mom-to-be!
Baby Shower Car Parade
Baby’s on the way
Bubbles & babies
Twin baby shower invitation wording
If the parents-to-be are expecting twins, you can tailor invitations to the occasion. These fun phrases are perfectly playful and to-the-point.
Twice as nice
A perfect pair
Adoption baby shower invitation wording
When the expectant family is adopting a baby under the age of two, it’s still perfectly appropriate to have a shower. There’s more flexibility on timing for this kind of party—you can host the celebration just before the little one comes home (giving parents some time to get all the essentials they’ll need to make their new family member perfectly comfortable) or shortly after adoption, so friends and family can meet them.
Countdown to the baby begins!
We found our missing piece.
A new chapter begins.
And a baby makes three (or four, or five)
Diaper and wipes baby shower invitation wording
Traditionally meant for fathers-to-be, diaper and wipes baby showers are a more casual kind of celebration, where guests bring—you guessed it—diapers and wipes as gifts instead of the big-ticket items that might appear on a registry.
A baby is brewing. Come join us for a diaper party celebration.
Raise your beer + toast the baby.
Office baby shower invitation wording
If someone at work is expecting a little one, an office baby shower is a sweet gesture before they go on maternity leave. Send invitations to employees with all the details, and if there’s anything they should bring. If people want, they can chip in for a gift, but make sure no one feels too pressured to do so. Some communal desserts and maybe a bouquet of flowers are a nice touch—and don’t forget to discreetly pass around a card for everyone to sign ahead of time.
Join us for a baby shower honoring _____.
Have tea with the mama to be.
Traditional baby shower invitation wording
For a traditional baby shower, all you need is a simple, sweet phrase announcing the impending arrival of the little one. These ideas are classic without being overdone.
Join us for a celebration full of love and little booties.
Twinke Twinkle little star. Do you know how loved you are?
Tiny little miracle.
Bundle of love
Baby [last name] is on the way!
Sip and See baby shower invitation wording
Held after the baby’s birth, a sip and see allows your guests to meet your baby over tea (and maybe some champagne). You’ll want to host this kind of party when the baby is at least two months old, and you might want to consider a more intimate guest list so things don’t get too rowdy.
Here comes the baby.
Our baby will see you now.
Sprinkle baby shower invitation wording
Most traditional baby showers are held for firstborns—but that doesn’t mean you can’t still celebrate the arrival of your second, third, or more. Sprinkle baby showers are more pared-back celebrations intended for second pregnancies, typically with more intimate guest lists and reduced registries. Guests can bring small presents or infant essentials like diapers, which parents-to-be are sure to appreciate.
Twinkle Twinkle, it’s a sprinkle!
Come sprinkle our baby with love.
A sprinkle of joy
We’re welcoming our little cupcake.
Couple’s baby shower invitation wording
In decades past, baby showers have most often been reserved for the mom-to-be. Today they can absolutely be a celebration for both parents. These invitation wording options make the shower a family affair.
It takes a village.
It was a joint effort.
From 2 to 3
Letting our love grow.
______ & ______ Are having a baby. Toast them at the pub.
There’s a bun in the oven and burgers on the grill.
Come join us for a couple’s shower. All are invited and welcome to come.
______ and ______ would like to invite you in welcoming their child into the world.
Baby boy baby shower invitation wording
If you choose to reveal the gender of your child before their birth, you can incorporate it into your celebration. These phrases are perfect for welcoming a baby boy into the world.
Our little prince
Snips and snails and puppy dog tails.
We’re all jumping with joy. It’s going to be a boy!
Did you hear the forecast? The baby shower is here, and we think it is going to shower and predict a boy!
Come help us celebrate baby boy ______.
Oh Boy! Come help us shower ______.
We are excited to welcome our little man into the family. Help us celebrate.
It’s a boy! Come welcome and celebrate our little boy.
Baby girl baby shower invitation wording
And for a baby girl, these phrases are perfectly sweet. If you’d like, you can use your invitations as your first gender reveal to friends and family as well.
Who run the world?
We’re tickled pink to announce there is a girl on the way.
Our little princess is arriving soon!
A precious baby girl is almost here!
Come help us shower ______ with love.
A little lady is on the way!
It’s a girl! Come celebrate our little girl.
A baby girl is on the way, so we are showering her mother with gifts for the big day.
Please join us for a shower to honor ______ and her daughter ______.
Gender neutral baby shower invitation wording
If you’d prefer a gender-neutral shower, there are plenty of fun ways to make your announcement. These options are great whether you’re planning on doing a gender reveal later down the line or not.
Our little one is on the way.
We’re happy to say there’s a baby on the way!
There is a new tot joining our lot.
Heard the news? There’s a new kid on the block!
Countdown to baby begins!
What will it be?
Welcome little one!
Make way for baby.
Baby on board
Celebrate the guest of honor
You can also choose to make the mom-to-be the star of the shower—these wording choices prioritize the guest of honor.
Llamma Lamma new mama
_____’s having a baby!
Join us for a baby shower honoring _____.
_____ invites you to a baby shower honoring the glowing Mama-to-be, her friend, _____.
_____ is expecting!
2,4,6,8, she’s about to procreate.
Shower her with love.
Baby shower invitation wording inspired by the theme
If you’re planning to have a specific theme for the baby shower, you can set the tone with your invitations while also providing your guests with a good set of expectations for the celebration. Here are a few ideas that are sure to make for a shower to remember.
Book baby shower invitation wording
One easy way to provide the expectant family with lots of good bedtime stories is to have a book baby shower. Ask guests to bring a children’s book instead of a card. Have them write a short message on the inside cover—they can share a favorite memory about reading the book when they were young, or just a wish for the little one. Then, the family will think of each guest as they share each book with their child.
Build baby’s library.
If you would be so kind, instead of a card, please bring a book that you have signed.
You are invited to celebrate our newest addition! Please bring your favorite edition.
We have one request that will not be too hard. Please bring a book instead of a card.
Funny baby shower invitation wording
Baby showers don’t have to be serious, either—they are a kind of party, after all. If the mom-to-be is known for her sense of humor, a sillier invitation will feel just right for her celebration.
Taco bout a cutie.
Ready to pop!
Bun in the oven.
Baby shower doo doo doo doo doo doo
Do babies like brunch?
Sh*t is about to get real.
No one puts baby in the corner.
Oop, we did it again.
Time to hit the bottle.
Baby shower invitation wording inspired by the season
Having a hard time deciding on a theme? Consider a seasonal approach to nod to the mom-to-be’s upcoming due date (and as an excuse to include plenty of seasonal treats at the fête itself).
Fall baby shower invitation wording
Multi-hued trees and decorative gourds set the scene for a festive autumn baby shower. Consider these messages for your invitations, and think about serving up some apple cider and doughnuts at the celebration.
Winter baby shower invitation wording
A winter baby shower is positively heart-warming—but you can allude to chilly temperatures with one of these notes. Plus, you can get even more use out of your holiday decorations by using them as a sweet shower backdrop.
Baby, it’s cold outside.
Welcome our little snowflake.
Spring baby shower invitation wording
Flowers and bees are the perfect imagery to incorporate into a springtime baby shower. These messages set a playful note for a floral-filled celebration.
Baby in bloom
Buckle up buttercup
Mama to bee
Have you heard the buzz?
Buzzing with joy
Our little sprout
Summer baby shower invitation wording
If the little one is expected to arrive in the summertime, a beachy theme fits the bill, even if you’re not hosting the party anywhere near the shoreline. You can bring the beach vibes to your backyard.
Anchors aweigh for the new baby
The world is your oyster.
Ribs & bibs
Ahoy! It’s a baby.
How do you address a baby shower invitation?
The way you address your invitations sets the tone for the party to come, so decide whether you’re going for a more formal or casual feel before writing out any names. For casual invitations, first or first and last names are perfectly fine, but formal names require a little more specificity.
Think of the email you send as the outer envelope and the Paperless Post envelope as the inner envelope. The inner envelope clarifies who in the household is invited and may save you from answering questions from guests later on.
Traditionally a woman’s name preceded a man’s when listed, but these days any order is fine. However, when one member’s title (Dr. or The Honorable) outranks the other, they would go first. A few examples that you may come across are:
Married couple with the same last name:
Mr. and Mrs. Villefort
Married couple with different last names:
Mr. Allan Woodcourt and Mrs. Ester Summerson
Umarried couple, living together:
Ms. Nicole Warren and Ms. Lola Brangwen
Mr. and Mrs. Crane
Just the adults in a family:
Mr. and Mrs. Crane
Aunt Catherine and Uncle William
How do I make a baby shower invitation?
First, create your Paperless Post invitation, select your Card design, and then customize it by clicking the area with text to add your own wording and details—don’t forget the RSVP by date! You can also edit the font, size, and color. Once you’re done customizing the Card, click the arrow to the right of it to edit the envelope color, liner, and backdrop, as well as the reply card.
On the next page, add details about the party: the event name, the host’s name, location, date, and time. You can choose to make the guest list visible (or not) and add a comment wall for guests to share messages. This page is also where you can conveniently add a link to a baby registry.
Last, add your guest list by manually entering their names and emails, importing a list from your email, or uploading a spreadsheet. You can preview your invitation before you send it out. Then, wait for the RSVPs to come in, using Paperless Post’s Tracking page. On this page, you can also use the Follow Up tool to gently nudge anyone who hasn’t responded and remind guests of the celebration a few days before the party.
If you want a more casual invitation, you can instead opt for a Flyer: These invitations don’t come with a more formal envelope design, but you can customize them the same way you would a Card. However, they don’t require you to have all the guests’ emails to send them. Instead, your invitations will exist via a web address you can easily send to guests via text, social media, or email. Flyers don’t have a tracking ability, so you’ll have to keep track of RSVPs independently. If you’re planning a virtual baby shower, a Flyer is a great choice.
A picture is worth a thousand words—so now that you’ve worked out what to say, pick your perfect baby shower Card or Flyer here.