What to get the person who has everything: 50 unusual gift ideas

Wondering what to get someone who has everything, or struggling to come up with gifts for people who don’t want anything? You’re not alone. Nearly every family or friend group has at least one person who makes gifting a challenge, whether they’re a minimalist or someone who buys everything they need before anyone else can get to it. The good news? Finding great gifts for even the trickiest recipient doesn’t require guessing or settling for something generic.

Instead, the secret to choosing truly unique gifts is understanding what these hard-to-buy-for people actually value. Some appreciate experiences, some love sentimental gestures, and others prefer elevated essentials that fit seamlessly into their daily routine. 

In this guide, we’ll break down what makes someone “impossible” to shop for, explore unusual gift ideas, share smart ways to investigate what they might secretly love, and recommend a few cute Paperless Post cards to pair with your gift. Whether you’re picking a birthday gift, Christmas or holiday gift, Valentine’s Day gift, or hostess gift, there are plenty of thoughtful ideas that will feel personal rather than predictable. Ready to get gifting?

What do the “hard to buy for” really want?

Being hard to shop for doesn’t always mean that someone already has every gadget, trinket, or luxury item available. Sometimes the opposite is true: they may avoid accumulating things on purpose. Minimalists, for example, may prefer gifts that don’t create clutter or take up valuable space. Frequent travelers often value portability or experiences over material items. And people in smaller living spaces may not want to make room for another gift set, no matter how nice it is.

Others fall into a different category: Those who simply buy themselves whatever they need throughout the year. For this group, the most unusual gifts or unique gifts are those they wouldn’t think to purchase: a meaningful experience, a personal keepsake, or an elevated version of an everyday essential. Ultimately, the key to getting gifts for people who don’t want anything isn’t extravagance—it’s thoughtfulness. 

Unusual gift ideas for every kind of recipient

Gifting “experiences”

Experiences make some of the best unusual gifts, especially for the person who already has enough stuff. Think cooking workshops, cozy seasonal activities, or experiences that you can do together.

For any gifts that will be delivered via a link or digitally, we recommend sending through a Links Block within a Paperless Post holiday or birthday card to add that extra-special personal touch. You can even schedule the card to send on a specific day so the recipient receives it at exactly the right time (and so you don’t risk forgetting on the day of!). 

1. Concert tickets

Give them a night out with tickets to see a favorite artist or a new band they’ll love. It’s a memory-making experience that feels personal without adding clutter.

2. Tickets to a sports event

Grab two tickets to see their favorite team so you can go together, or gift them a pair to take a partner or friend. 

3. Broadway or show tickets

Whether they love musicals, plays, or comedy performances, a night at the theater transforms an ordinary evening into a lively, immersive experience they can enjoy and treasure.

4. A special trip

If you want to go big, plan a trip—anything from a dream destination to a simple weekend getaway a few hours away. Curating the itinerary makes it feel extra thoughtful.

5. A meal kit subscription

Great for busy schedules or aspiring chefs, meal kit subscriptions, such as Marley Spoon (Martha Stewart’s meal kit service), deliver fresh ingredients and recipes straight to their door for effortless weeknight cooking.

6. Cooking or knife skills lessons

 

Check out your local culinary school for hands-on classes. They’ll walk away with new skills, a fun experience, and maybe even a signature dish to show off.

7. An online class subscription

Give a yearlong subscription to an online video course through websites like MasterClass, which offers lessons with experts like Shonda Rhimes, Neil deGrasse Tyson, and Joanna Gaines, for endless inspiration and opportunities to explore new creative pursuits.

8. A pottery class

Sign them up for a pottery session at a nearby studio where they can relax, experiment with clay, and leave with a handmade piece that serves as both a keepsake and a decorative item.

9. An ice cream subscription

Who wouldn’t love to find delicious ice cream delivered directly to their door? Treat them to an ice cream subscription service such as the Pint Club or a curated box of favorite flavors from Jeni’s Ice Creams for a sweet, indulgent experience.

10. A wine club subscription

 

Enroll them in a wine subscription, like Helen’s Wine Club, to receive thoughtfully curated bottles from emerging and classic producers, providing a way to explore new wines without ever leaving the comfort of home.

11. A hands-on craft workshop

Book a workshop in candle-making, embroidery, or woodworking where they can learn new skills, enjoy a hands-on creative experience, and leave with a handmade item to cherish.

12. A spa or wellness day

Gift them a massage, facial, or full spa day pass for the chance to unwind, recharge, and indulge in a restorative experience that prioritizes their relaxation and well-being.

13. A seasonal tour or tasting

Arrange a guided experience like a brewery tour, vineyard visit, or chocolate tasting. Yum—and fun!

14. A national parks pass

Gift a yearlong pass to US national parks that’ll grant them access to trails, scenic vistas, and outdoor adventures—encouraging them to explore, disconnect, and appreciate the beauty of nature at their own pace.

15. A local photography session

Hire a professional photographer for a mini session—whether for couples, families, or solo portraits—for an experience that results in cherished keepsakes.

Personal, sentimental gifts

When someone values meaning over material goods, unique gifts with a personal touch can be deeply appreciated. Think keepsakes, customized pieces, or anything that celebrates your relationship or a special moment. 

16. A homemade treat

 

A batch of cookies, fudge, or sourdough loaf can feel incredibly special when it’s packaged in a cute tin or box.

17. A floral arrangement in a vintage vase

Bring the classic floral arrangement up a level with a thrifted or antique vase, which they can reuse in their home for years to come. 

18. A reservation at their favorite restaurant

For someone who enjoys dining out, securing a table at their go-to spot (and picking up the check!) gives them the chance to savor favorite dishes without planning or hassle.

19. A digital frame 

Friends and family members will love a digital frame preloaded with meaningful photos to display an ever-changing collection of memories without cluttering shelves.

20. A special version of their favorite book

Book collectors or literary lovers will appreciate a vintage, leather-bound, or illustrated edition that spruces up their shelf. 

21. Tennis bracelet

For someone who enjoys classic jewelry, a beautiful tennis bracelet is always a crowd-pleaser that combines elegance with everyday wearability.

22. Personalized stationery

A custom stationery set from places like Rifle Paper Co., Papier, or Etsy lets someone who loves writing letters express themselves with distinctive designs that reflect their style and personality.

23. A box full of their favorite things 

Foodies and snack lovers will love an assortment of treats tailored to their tastes, all curated into a festive gift box.

24. A custom pet portrait

 

Pet parents will treasure a commissioned portrait, such as one from Purr & Mutt or a local artist, for a one-of-a-kind keepsake of a furry friend they adore.

25. Swedish candy

A box filled with Swedish sweets, like the BonBon NYC box, is the perfect gift for candy lovers who enjoy trying new treats with a nostalgic twist.

26. A new signature scent

Fragrance aficionados will enjoy exploring perfume samplers, such as Serviette’s discovery set, and testing a mix of scents to find a new signature perfume that matches their mood or personality.

27. A custom map print

For someone who loves travel or memories of special places, a framed map highlighting a city, neighborhood, or trip offers a unique way to celebrate a meaningful location.

28. Handwritten letters in a keepsake box

Collect notes, memories, or letters from their friends and family, placing them in a beautiful keepsake box that lets them revisit meaningful moments anytime.

29. A framed photo collage

Gather favorite photos from trips, celebrations, or everyday moments and display them in a beautiful frame that tells a story they’ll cherish.

30. Custom embroidered throw or pillow

Gift a throw blanket or pillow embroidered with initials, a date, or a short message, combining everyday comfort with a deeply personal touch.

Everyday essentials

Everyday essentials might sound practical, but when thoughtfully chosen, they can be some of the best gifts for people who don’t want anything. An upgraded version of something they use daily, a beautifully made home item, or a high-quality essential they wouldn’t splurge on can strike the perfect balance of useful and delightful.

31. Cashmere socks

Socks are often a default gift, but a quality cashmere pair will feel luxurious underfoot, making them perfect for someone who secretly loves indulgent everyday comforts.

32. Silk hair ties 

For friends who care about hair health or morning routines, a set of smooth silk hair ties prevents breakage while adding a touch of elegance to their everyday.

33. An audiobook subscription

Gift a subscription to an audiobook website such as Audible to the reader in your life, giving them instant access to thousands of audiobooks and podcasts for commutes, workouts, or quiet evenings at home.

34. A newspaper or magazine subscription 

 

For curious minds, a subscription to Air Mail, Cabana, Monocle, or another title—digital or physical—keeps them inspired and connected.

35. A new cookbook release

For someone who loves exploring flavors or refining their kitchen skills, a newly released cookbook offers fresh recipes, inspiring techniques, and plenty of ideas they likely haven’t tried yet.

36. Luxurious soap

Gift them an elevated soap, like one from the Flamingo Estate Heirloom Tomato collection, which combines natural ingredients with playful packaging, creating a luxurious, fragrant experience that elevates even the most routine moments.

37. PJs

A nice pair of pajamas offer classic comfort, and adding personalized embroidery transforms a simple staple into a cozy, elevated gift perfect for relaxing evenings.

38. A cozy blanket

Choose a blanket like the Chappy Wrap in a color or pattern that reflects their home or personality. Its soft, oversized design makes curling up on the sofa irresistible.

39. A hair care set 

Upgrade their daily routine with a set like the Crown Affair Dry Hair Duo, which promotes hydration for both morning and evening hair care rituals.

40. Butter and cheese knives

Butter or cheese knives like the Sabre bistro spreaders combine sleek design with practical function, making them ideal for someone who loves entertaining, cheese boards, or serving butter with style.

41. A canvas tote

A versatile tote—like this one from Alex Mill—offers a chic, practical accessory for commuting, errands, or travel, comes in versatile colors, and can even be customized with hand-painted letters.

42. Lighter holder

A stylish lighter case turns a mundane household item into a decorative piece, perfect for someone who loves functional design details in their home.

43. Needlepoint luggage tag

Upgrade a frequent traveler’s suitcase with a colorful needlepoint luggage tag, making their bag instantly recognizable while adding a playful, personal touch.

44. A cute hat

A slightly elevated baseball cap, like this one from Loeffler Randall, keeps them protected from the sun or bad hair days while also adding a polished, everyday accessory to outfits.

45. A fancy salt sampler

A salt sampler like Jacobsen Salt Co.’s limited-edition tin collection offers infused salts with flavors like black garlic, rosemary, and lemon zest for those who love cooking, experimenting, and elevating simple dishes.

46. Workout weights

A set of weighted bangles make a subtle but effective addition to a fitness routine, ideal for someone who enjoys working out at home or wants portable weights for travel.

47. Packing cubes

Travel enthusiasts will appreciate the convenience of sleek packing cubes, which keep suitcases neatly organized, save space, and make unpacking a breeze.

Charitable gifts

 

If you’re still unsure what to get someone who has everything, charitable gifts are a thoughtful, clutter-free way to honor their values. They allow you to turn your present into real-world impact—no storage space required—and you can easily send a Paperless Post card with a link or more info about the donation for an extra personal touch.

48. Donate to a cause they care about

Make a contribution in their name to an organization that aligns with their passions—whether that’s environmental conservation, animal welfare, education, or community support.

49. Sponsor an animal or habitat

Many wildlife organizations offer symbolic adoptions that help protect endangered species or preserve habitats, and the recipient often gets updates or photos throughout the year.

50. Support a local mutual aid group

A donation to a neighborhood pantry, community fridge, or mutual aid network can make a direct impact in your recipient’s community—perfect for someone who values grassroots efforts.

How to “investigate” their perfect gift

When you’re trying to surprise someone who’s hard to shop for, a little subtle sleuthing goes a long way. Here are a few easy tactics to help you uncover the best gift ideas without giving yourself away:

• Ask their partner, roommate, or best friend. People close to them often know what they genuinely use, need, or talk about.
• Pretend you’re shopping for someone else. Ask for their opinion on a “friend’s” gift—it usually reveals their own preferences.
• Listen for tiny frustrations. Broken items, disliked chores, or lifestyle inconveniences can spark great ideas.
• Browse their social media. Likes and followed accounts often reveal interests or hobbies.
• Notice their routine. A gift that fits seamlessly into habits—morning coffee, nightly reading, weekend hikes—always feels personal.
• Observe what they don’t buy themselves. Many people skip indulgent or upgraded versions of essentials, making them perfect gifts.

FAQ

What is the 5 gift rule?

The 5 gift rule is a simple framework that will help you narrow down what to get someone who has everything. It breaks presents into five intentional categories you can choose to gift from: something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read, and something to experience. This approach makes it easier to choose thoughtful, meaningful gifts without overthinking it. 

What do I get for a woman who has everything?

Choose thoughtful, meaningful, or experience-driven gifts. Consider personalized keepsakes, luxurious everyday essentials, or a memorable activity she wouldn’t book for herself. These types of unusual gifts show attention to detail and feel special without adding clutter.

What can I buy for a man who has everything?

Look for high-quality basics, upgraded versions of items he uses daily, or unique gifts centered on hobbies, interests, or experiences. Many men who say they “don’t need anything” still appreciate thoughtful, well-made essentials or an enjoyable activity you can do together.

Where can I buy unique gifts?

With the internet at your fingertips, there’s no shortage of places to find great gifts. Try Anthropologie, Hudson Grace, Big Night, Quince, Hawkins New York, Chairish for vintage finds, BaubleBar, Mejuri, Alex Mill, or Rifle Paper Co. Local boutiques are also wonderful resources, since they often carry curated, locally made items you won’t find anywhere else.

What gift do you get someone who says they don’t want any?

Lean toward experiences, consumables, charitable donations, or practical essentials. These options keep things simple, thoughtful, and low-clutter—perfect for people who genuinely don’t want more things but still appreciate a kind gesture.

Send your unique gifts with Paperless Post

At the end of the day, figuring out what to get someone who has everything is really about paying attention to what they value. The most memorable and unique gifts tend to be thoughtful, intentional, and tailored to the way they live, whether that’s through meaningful experiences, sentimental gestures, or beautifully made essentials they’ll reach for every day. 

To make it even more special, you can pair your present with a customized Paperless Post greeting card—where you can choose the design, write your own message, and even schedule it to send at the perfect moment. It’s a simple way to elevate the experience and leave your recipient with a heartfelt note they’ll remember long after the gift is opened.